In the non-IT world, someone created this joke: What is it that everyone can see but God can't?
A similar creature!
In IT: What is it that lets you see everyone else but not yourself?
I was using, for the first time, Google Groups. Michael Z., my fellow in the endeavour, patiently explained this to me as I panicked, thinking of the 16 years plus of atrocities I endure, and said: Jee, I am not in the group because my name does not appear and I see 3 but we are four.
Believe it or not, I did just like the Irish are told to do in Australia and the Portuguese are told to do in Brazil: I even contacted IT support for this one. Sad enough was realising that the IT person knew less than Michael about the tool....